May 19th, 2012
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May 19th, 2012
Quote of the day | Advice from Dr. Neil Gaiman: ‘Make good art’
“Remember, whatever discipline you’re in, whether you’re a musician or a photographer, a fine artist or a cartoonist, a writer, a dancer, a singer, a designer — whatever you do, you have one thing that’s unique: You have the ability to make art. And for me, and for so many of the people I’ve known, that’s been a lifesaver, the ultimate lifesaver. It gets you through good times, and it gets you through … the other ones. Sometimes life is hard. Things go wrong — in life and in love and in business and in friendship and in health and in all the other ways life can go wrong. And when things get tough, this is what you should do: Make good art. I’m serious. Husband runs off with a politician? Make good art. Leg crushed and then eaten by mutated boa constrictor? Make good art. IRS on your trail? Make good art. Cat exploded? Make good art. Someone on the Internet thinks what you’re doing is stupid or evil or it’s all been done before? Make good art. Probably things will work out somehow, eventually time will take the sting away, and that doesn’t even matter. Do what only you can do best: Make good art. Make it on the bad days, make it on the good days, too.”
– Neil Gaiman, in his commencement address to the University of the Arts in Philadelphia, where he was bestowed with an honorary doctorate in fine arts (watch the full speech below)
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May 19th, 2012

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May 14th, 2012
From Letters to an American Lady:
Don’t be too easily convinced that God really wants you to do all sorts of work you needn’t do. Each must do his duty “in that state of life to which God has called him”. Remember that a belief in the virtues of doing for doing’s sake is characteristically feminine, characteristically American, and characteristically modern: so that three veils may divide you from the correct view! There can be intemperance in work just as in drink. What feels like zeal may be only fidgets or even the flattering of one’s self-importance. As MacDonald says “In holy things may be unholy greed”. And by doing what “one’s station and its duties” does not demand, one can make oneself less fit for the duties it does demand and so commit some injustice. Just you give Mary a little chance as well as Martha!
Yours, Jack
I think there’s a lot in that. Busy-ness can become an end in itself. (I touched upon that theme here.)
Hat tip to Adrienne, who included the quotation in a post about motherhood and work a while back.
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May 14th, 2012
by Hilary George-Parkin | 6:35 pm, May 13th, 2012
Happy Mother’s Day, everyone! In honor of this very special day, we’ve taken the expression “mother knows best” to heart and rounded up some of the best pieces of advice that top designers say they ever received from their moms.
The bits of wisdom range from sweet (Elbaz) to inspiring (DVF) to somewhat questionable (Lagerfeld), but no matter what they all seem to have done the trick!
Oh, and Ford‘s is technically from his grandmother. It’s her day today too!
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1.Michael Kors: “Keep it simple, keep it comfortable, and stay consistent.”

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2.Tory Burch: “To be optimistic, compassionate and that family comes first.”

from Huffington Post
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3.Tom Ford: “You have one decision to make in life: you can either be happy or you cannot be happy.”

from Ford’s interview at the 92Y
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4.Alber Elbaz: “Stay big in your work and small in your life.”

from The Independent
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5.Valentino Garavani: “Try to make beautiful things because people, they expect nice things from you.”

from InStyle
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6.Tommy Hilfiger: “Treat others as I would want to be treated regardless of age, race or financial status.”

from Harper’s Bazaar
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7.Diane von Furstenberg: “Fear is not an option.”

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8.Karl Lagerfeld: “Go to bed like you have a date at the door.”

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May 14th, 2012
Hats off to you graduates! We’ve finally done it. While some of us are moving on to graduate school, a new job or an exciting adventure, we all have thoughts about what we wish we had known as a college student.
That’s not to say I regret any of my decisions as a college student — college was one of the best experiences of my life. However, over the past few weeks, I have been thinking about advice to give my now sophomore sister who attends the same university that I just left. While she is a much better student than me and probably knows all of this, they are still good tips to keep in mind.
While I realize that every student is different in how they approach their education, here are five final things that this graduate thinks may help you.
Too much junk in the trunk…or dorm room Moving to college can be an exciting thing. Stores such as WalMart, Bed, Bath and Beyond and Target are really eager to “help” you get all of the items you “need” for your dorm room. Being the oldest child in my family, my mom and I went a little overboard with all of the stuff that I brought to school. I didn’t end up needing a lot of things until I moved into a house off campus.
Take it from a former Target employee, you don’t need all of junk that you think you will. Also, take time to donate and throw away items every year to cut down on the clutter.
Don’t take your laptop to class Some people are super multi-taskers who can listen to a professor, take notes, Facebook and tweet all at once in lecture. However, most of us are not. So, leave your laptop at home or in your backpack. Take notes the old fashioned way — in a notebook. Physically writing things down improves your memory…and I’m pretty sure your pen doesn’t have Wi-Fi to distract you.
So, I’ll keep it simple, electronics are super distracting, and I’m positive your best friend’s relationship issues and statuses won’t be on your next test.
Catching Zzzzs helps with A’s Freshman year, I felt invincible and I no longer had parents giving me a curfew or telling me when to go to bed. So, I’d stay out late hanging out with friends or watching movies. I was able to get by on a few hours of sleep and made it up on the weekends.
However, it took it’s toll my sophomore year. Friends in classes told me I did “the head bob” in lectures. It was incredibly funny to those around me, but not so funny to me when I hit the books…literally.
However, as my senior year approached, I started dating my now fiancé, who is an accountant. He needs sleep. So, I started going home at 10pm so that he could get his sleep for work the next day. Because there was nothing interesting going on after he was at home sleeping, I started going to sleep at a reasonable hour and getting up early for school. I didn’t know what I was missing. A clear head and not falling asleep in class because of sleep deprivation? Yes, please! Who can learn if their head keeps hitting the books with sleepiness…literally?
Be friends with your professors One of the best things I learned in college? Professors not only help you learn, but are great mentors. If a professor knows you well, they can write you a letter of recommendation or can even use their connections to get you a very sought after interview.
Many graduate programs or employers will ask for a recommendation from a professor. So, this tip is essential. Go in to all of your professors’ offices at the beginning of the semester to introduce yourself. They’ll like you better and will more likely help you if you get into a bind during the semester.
Enjoy the moment This applies to all life situations, and I still struggle with this piece of advice. We’re all eager to graduate, make a real salary and move along with our lives. However, remember to just have fun. Studying is great and will keep your grades healthy, but remember to let loose and have fun sometimes. Don’t be telling everyone you meet how “glad you are” to get out of school and into the real world. Once you’re out, you can’t ever replicate your college experiences.
Be optimistic and enjoy your limited time. It goes fast and by the time you realize that, it’s all over and you’re left with your memories and diploma. Don’t let your college experience sneak away without knowing it. Every step, good or bad, just enjoy the journey.
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May 8th, 2012
He was blunt about their chances – “the odds of anyone in this room making it to WrestleMania are slim,” noting that there are about 1,500 players in the NFL while only 200-250 (a number that seems high to me) on the WWE roster. “Numerically,” he said, “you have a better chance making it on any NFL team than on the WWE roster.” But, he said, “notice I didn’t say there was no chance. The question you have to answer is ‘How do I maximize my slim chance?’”
…And he repeatedly encouraged aspirants to “have a Plan B. You need an education or a skill – an electrician or a plumber. Having a Plan B is essential. You need to ask yourself ‘What do I do to maintain a good quality of life in a changing economy?’” He noted how many times he had had his heart broken when the time had come for a wrestler to leave the business. He said “now that they can’t do it anymore they have a feeling of hopelessness. They say to me ‘This is all I know.’ I swear to God I have heard that a thousand times.”
I don’t think that it’s harder to get into the NFL or WWE than it is to become a chemist employed in industry. At the same time, I find it a little frustrating that prominent people in sports entertainment seem to be more honest about the chances of any one person at the bottom of the food chain making it than the median prominent chemist would be to a group of graduate students.*
As much as I might hate to admit it, “What do I do to maintain a good quality of life in a changing economy?” is a question that both aspiring and current chemists should really ponder for themselves. While I would like to think that “being excellent at your job as a chemist” is enough, it doesn’t always seem to be.
Best wishes to all of us.
*I should note that professional wrestling’s career ladder (especially the minor league circuit) is famously much more brutal and prone to abuse than the worst of chemistry.
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May 8th, 2012
Read here for an earlier story that asks what your name says about you
By Emanuella Grinberg, CNN
(CNN) – Raphael Larrinaga was tired of sending out job applications and not getting a response, so he decided to try a different approach.
No, he didn’t embellish a job title or fabricate a master’s degree on his résumé. Instead, he swapped out his Spanish first name for something with more “Americanized,” something that people would expect from a guy with blond hair and blue eyes job-hunting in Utah in the 1980s.
Almost instantly, Ray Larrinaga began getting calls back, he said. Within two weeks, he accepted a job with a bank and went back to the name his Spanish-born parents had given him.
“People said I was paranoid, but I’m not exaggerating a bit,” said Larrinaga, now a self-employed graphic designer. “I went from almost a zero response to my applications to over 50 percent response.”
In hindsight, the resident of Bountiful, Utah, said he’s a little ashamed of his ploy. Sure, he could be a chameleon and scuttle his Spanish roots if he wanted to, but visible minorities can’t get rid of their accent or change the color of their skin, he said.
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May 8th, 2012
Sahil Lavingia has a gift for building what people want. A look at his resume reveals he was a designer for Pinterest, built the iPhone app for Turntable.fm, and now he’s the founder of Gumroad, a startup with the modest ambition of enabling people to sell anything (a song, a snippet of code, an icon design) to anyone.
Oh, and though it feels cliche to mention, he’s only 19 years old.
Upon talking with Lavingia, however, that number quickly recedes into nothingness. He is smart. He’s well connected. And he’s gathered a lifetime’s worth of experience, which he sat down to share with us. All you wannabe Zuckerberg’s out there should take note as Lavingia gives us his take on:
- Designing great mobile products
- Advice for young entrepreneurs
- The benefits of worldly exposure
- What’s next for Gumroad
Lavingia on building great products:
Lavingia’s advice for young entrepreneurs:
Lavingia on the benefits of living abroad:
Lavingia on what’s next:
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May 3rd, 2012
CNNMoney:
I work for a Fortune 500 company that matches my 401(k) contributions in company stock, which I can then re-allocate to other investments every quarter if I wish. Given that I won’t retire for several decades and I think my company has great growth potential, how much of my 401(k) do you think I should have in my company’s stock? John, Minneapolis, Minn.
How do I put this? How about zero, none, nada, zilch.
Read the whole story at CNNMoney
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Thank you!great speech.it applies on all other levels too.must share!